Great article and comments. I am a 76 year old man.

- Who is this woman going to be when the lust subsides?

- Is she kind?

- Is she controlling?

- Is she curious and looking forward to learning?

- Does she communicate . . . the whole truth?

- Does she love children and animals?

- Can she tolerate whatever you do for work?

- Will she be jealous of every woman you interact with?

I've been married for 38 years because I found a woman who fits the bill.