Where did I get it? From your article last week. Maybe you should reread the article and the comments thereto. Your infatuation with and practice of judging people by their money is pretty obvious. I have no first hand experience, but I would guess that your shit stinks like everyone else.
.Why don't they choose poor old men? Could be lots of things. Women, whether seeking young or old men, want security. Maybe they find more with older men. Maybe the woman has daddy issues, which is another reason to communicate. Maybe the young woman is sick to death of the self-centeredness and meanness of many young men. Oh, and one other I can think of . . . maybe the young woman is in love with the older man. Ever considered that one?